Relationship Articles

Free, evidence-based articles on modern dating, attraction, and connection

The articles below are freely available as introductions to the deeper topics covered inside The Love Guide. Each article draws on contemporary research and is written to be immediately practical.

Why Social Anxiety Isn't a Personality Flaw — It's a Nervous System Response

Understanding the neuroscience behind dating anxiety is the first step to overcoming it. Read the article →

The Science of First Impressions: What Actually Matters (And What Doesn't)

Research consistently shows that first impressions are governed by non-verbal signals more than words. Read the article →

Why Pick-Up Lines Don't Work — And What to Say Instead

The psychology of authentic conversation openers and why scripted lines almost always backfire. Read the article →

The Paradox of Choice in Modern Dating Apps

How infinite options on dating apps are making it harder, not easier, to find meaningful connection. Read the article →

What Attachment Theory Tells Us About Why We Behave the Way We Do

Understanding your attachment style is one of the most powerful things you can do for your relationship life. Read the article →

The Real Reasons People Ghost — And How to Respond

Ghosting is a modern epidemic. Here's what the psychology tells us about why it happens and what it actually means. Read the article →

How to Build Genuine Rapport: The Foundations of Real Connection

Rapport isn't a technique — it's a state. Understanding what actually creates it changes everything. Read the article →

The Charisma Myth: Why Charm Is a Learnable Skill, Not a Gift

Research from social psychology and communication science reveals the specific behaviours that create charisma. Read the article →

Long-Distance Relationships: What the Research Actually Shows

Contrary to popular belief, long-distance relationships can be as satisfying as geographically close ones. Here's how. Read the article →

Dating After Heartbreak: A Research-Based Guide to Recovery and Readiness

The psychology of heartbreak recovery, what the science says about timelines, and how to know when you're truly ready. Read the article →

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